Autumn Shows Us How Beautiful It Is to Let Things Go

There is a quiet magic in the autumn garden, a shifting of energy from relentless growth to a soft, necessary surrender.  As the vibrant greens of summer fade into rich rusts and golds, the earth reminds us that endings are not failures--they are preparations.  The fading blooms, dropping leaves, and clearing beds are not signs of loss, but rather the garden doing exactly what nature intended.   Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go, proving that stripping away the old is the only way to make room for the new life waiting just beneath the soil.

2025

Autumn is always so bittersweet for me.  While spring will always hold the number one space in my heart,  summer is a very close second.  I love the warm days and nights, the longer days, all the fresh produce from my own vegetable garden, and the flowers.  But after months of hard labor, like my garden, I am always ready for some rest and some time to do some other things besides gardening.  And of course I love all the things about fall everyone else does:  fall foliage, pumpkin spice lattes, butternut squash soup, fall festivals, fall fashion...just about everything except football.  I'll skip the football 😀 give me some apple pie instead!

As we continue to reminisce about the wonders of fall, let's walk through my fall garden and outdoor fall decor shall we?  Some of these photos were taken last year that I never got around to posting so I divided them into two sections:  2025 and 2026.

Stepping into the backyard during this season becomes a practice in presence.  Every falling leaf is a gentle lesson in non-attachment, a visual reminder that there is beauty in releasing what no longer serves us.  Just as the trees don't cling to their foliage out of fear of the coming winter, we too can look at our own lives and ask what we are holding onto past its season.  In the quiet stillness of the cooling earth, the garden invites us to slow our pace, breathe in the crisp air, and find peace in the natural rhythm of rest and renewal.

Most of the blooms have faded, but I still have a few hanging baskets "hanging" in there.  Sometimes a basket really does give out and dies by the end of summer, and other times like this one, it produces one last hurrah before the first killing frost.

With the exception of some sedum "Autumn Joy", there are no more colorful blooms in the perennial garden, yet, it is still beautiful with all its colorful foliage and textures.  A beautiful garden does not always have to be green and blooming.  The spectacular transition of foliage from vibrant green to deep rust, burgundy, and gold is amazing to behold.

The elegance of dried seed heads and even faded annuals past its prime is so pretty.  Pictured below is my annual bed full of zinnias and marigolds that look like they have seen better days, yet, they still have so much color and beauty.  Just a few weeks ago, the zinnia patch was a riot of electric pinks, fiery oranges, and neon yellows.  But as the October frost creeps in those bright petals and leaves are turning shades of parchment and rust. 

The cranberry trees always do double duty in the fall producing not only beautiful burgundy foliage but stunning berries that feed the birds well into winter. 

Other than the flowering stems, I never cut hosta down in the fall because their autumn transition is spectacular!  Before they go dormant their leaves undergo a dramatic shift turning shades of bright gold, amber, and butter yellow, brightening up shady parts of the garden.

For my home sign in the front of my yard, I'm always tempted to rip everything out and add some mums, but I can never bring myself to do it because I love the fading foliage of the existing plants.  To add some more color, why I simply place some pumpkins right in the garden bed with the fading flowers.

I wish I had trees in my yard that were more colorful in the fall, but unfortunately we mostly have walnuts and whirly bird maples.  We've tried many times planting other types of trees, but they always die on us or get eaten by a deer, so we've given up.  Yet, even the dull light foliage of the maples still provide a calming colorful serenity to our yard.

The marigolds usually turn black in the fall because they don't like the cold overnight temperatures, so I usually rip those out as they are not attractive at all, and I replace them with mums.

My front porch area stays colorful for a long time as the red salvias are pretty cold hardy.  I simply add some pumpkins for spots of more bright color.

Just to show how different things can be from one year to the next, with almost no explanation, last year my begonias bloomed amazingly until frost, and my impatients were incredible.  This year, my begonias died off early, and the inpatients just never grew well.

Last year's fall decor.  As you can see in the photo below the wheelbarrow was so stuffed full with beautiful impatience I didn't need to add anything to it in the fall.  This year, (as you will see in later photos) I had to change things up because of the poor performance of the inpatients.

I grew snapdragons last year but they didn't perform as well as I had hoped, so I didn't plant them again this year.  I loved the color of this snapdragon;  so perfect for fall.

A little old "Happy Fall" sign I painted myself.

2026

This year's photos were taken a bit earlier in the fall than the ones shown above, so we haven't had a light frost yet.  I only purchased one pumpkin so far, and I placed it on my front porch because there wasn't room for it in my sign area.  I did lose a couple of annuals while I was on vacation in August, so I replaced those with some mums and added some cute country fall stakes.

The hanging baskets are still "hanging in there" so I haven't replaced them yet.  Cute metal pumpkin stakes fill empty garden spots to add more color.

My houseplants are still outside even though overnight temperatures are getting nippy.  I like to leave them outside till the last minute as they are so much easier to care for when they are outside.  I see I will have to untangle this houseplant and stand from the Black Eyed Susan vine that decided to use it as a trellis. 

 I placed a faux pumpkin and some artificial flowers near the front door.  If an area is too shady outside to use real flowers, I don't have any issues with using fake ones to brighten up an area.

My wall hanging basket uses a combination of fake and real flowers.  Some of the annuals died, but others still looked great, so I just filled in the bare spots with some bright and cheery sunflowers.  The yellow really stands out;  I love it!

For my side porch, I have more hanging baskets from summer still "hanging in there".  Some of the impatience in the planters died, so I replaced them with coleus from the Kong series.  This is a giant coleus that grows super well in both shade and sun.  

For my table top I added a fall flower arrangement/bucket, a fall rock, and a little scarecrow doll.

One end of the porch has a wall shelf that I decorate seasonally, a pumpkin sign, and my wheelbarrow filled with mums and faux gourds.

For my shelf, I just draped some garland across it then added a pitcher of sunflowers, a small pumpkin, and a fall ceramic owl.

This year I put my handmade fall sign near the side door inside a nail barrel with some walking sticks, fall foliage and faux pumpkins.

I balanced the other side of the door with more gourds, a fall welcome sign, and a fall pillow on the rocker.

Here you can see how different my wheelbarrow looks from last year.  Because the inpatients never really grew and filled in, I added mums and pumpkins to the wheelbarrow.

Here is a close up of one of my Kong Coleus plants.  If you live in a warmer climate, these plants can grow up three feet tall, but most grow 18 to 22 inches. 

I've tried many different annuals on the west side of my house, but this giant salvia always grows best.  It's hard to find though, most nurseries only grow the small variety.  I have to drive to special nursery every year just to get these beauties.  

And near the screen porch I grow these large begonias every year.  They just love this spot!

I usually have all my bird feeders hanging here but this summer we had a naughty raccoon that broke every bird feeder I own, so I had to take them down.  I added this hanging basket to fill the empty spot.

The Autumn garden teaches us that release is a prerequisite for renewal.  Ultimately, the autumn garden reminds us that peace is found when we stop fighting the natural seasons of our lives.  By stripping down to its bare roots, the garden does not mourn what is lost, but quietly prepares for what is to come.  Let this beautiful season give you the permission to clear your own soil, prune away the exhaustion, and rest deeply without guilt.  Open your hands, let the old leaves fall, and trust that the quiet winter ahead is exactly what you need to bloom again when your spring arrives.

What is your garden--or your life--teaching you this season?  I'd love to hear from you!

Have a Great Day! Amy

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